How To Find A Sugar Daddy Or Sugar Baby

There is no shame in knowing what you want, and going for it. The key is in surrounding yourself with likeminded individuals. So, if you are a sugar daddy looking for a sugar baby, or a cougar looking for a cub—you need to know exactly where to look. Below are some of the best places to go to find the lover you are searching for!

Local Cougar Or Sugar Daddy Events

There are many dating agencies, clubs, and matchmakers who understand your distinct desires—which is why they host events that attract the sugar babies and cubs you are looking for. Don’t worry, the events are typically not intermingled. As an added bonus, matchmakers will often screen both parties before extending an invitation.

Know Your Local Hot Spots

If you live in a major metropolis, there are sure to be a few spots known for attracting the partner you are looking for. Is there an after-work bar that attracts a more distinguished crowd? Is there a local charity ball, festival, or event that you can attend in hopes of finding your next partner? Where do the wealthy men and women hang? Keep your eye out for every opportunity.

Ask For An Introduction

Just like dating someone closer to your own age demographic, an introduction is still one of the easiest ways to meet someone new. If you have a friend with an older or younger partner, ask them if they have any friends they can introduce you to. Since you have a mutual contact who is already in an alternative relationship, you know that if they accept your invitation to meet that they are open minded.

Online Dating Websites

Whether you are looking for love, an emotional connection, someone to spoil, or a lover—online dating site is the perfect way to expand your current dating pool. However, you must make sure that you don’t sign up for a standard dating site—but a cougar dating website or sugar daddy dating website. When filling out your profile, be clear about what you are looking for, especially if you are looking for someone on the side.  

Setting Realistic Expectations

If this is your first older or younger partner then you may not be sure what to expect. The first thing that you must do is clearly define what you are looking for. Start with your desire for intimacy, which may be any combination of love, sex, and companionship. Then consider factors such as exclusivity or affairs, someone to spoil, or someone to support you financially. Also, discuss if this is a short-term or long-term arrangement. Or maybe you just want to date and see where things go.

There are many benefits to dating someone more mature, or someone who is as youthful as you still feel. With the growing acceptance that age is just a number, you will even find your friends and family to be supportive of your relationship—that is unless you prefer to keep things under wraps. 

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Peter McIntyre

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Peter McIntyre is a charismatic dating blogger who offers practical advice and relatable insights on modern romance.