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Affair dating

NoStringsAttached Review. Is NoStringsAttached a Scam or a Legit Affair Site?


It's fair to say that the extra-marital online dating scene has taken a few knocks down the years, but yet it is still a strong area of the internet hookup industry.

Members are wiser than ever, covering their tracks at every opportunity and  understanding more than ever that the key to not getting caught is to be sensible; use a pseudonym, join with your work email not your home one, pay through channels that your husband or wife don't have access to, ensure the site doesn't use clear indicators on your billing that the payment is for an online cheating site, etc. You have to be just as careful when looking for someone to have a naughty liaison with online as you would in a bar or with a work colleague, only the fact that you're using the power of the internet to search obviously gives you a lot more variety and no offline connections to the person you decide to meet up with.

Our Review 

When it comes to affair dating sites, it's best to look out for clear 'red flags' that show you whether or not the site that you're thinking of joining appreciates the subtle differences between married individuals that are looking for a no strings fling and those who are sex seeking singles. An example of this might be whether the site adds plain, non-blurred photos of it's members to the front page (before you log in or register). For horny singles, having your photo pop up on a dating site isn't a major problem - but when you're planning an extra-marital excursion this is exactly the type of thing that will put you off, as the key to the affairs game is anonymity.


How does this relate to our review? Well, as a secret hook up site that flies under the radar, we're pleased to report that we didn't spot any such 'red flags' during our site review. The front page thankfully doesn't show non-blurred member images. Moreover, other important things like security are addressed by the “verified and secured” icon along with a couple of sentences about ensuing members' privacy is maintained during site use. The site's mission statement is to provide users with the opportunity to rediscover the thrill of new romance and passionate sex, a clear indication that this site knows exactly what it's potential members are here for. - Let's Have A Closer Look

Once you join the site and enter the members area, you can find a variety on interesting features and options. The Live Webcam option immediately jumps out as being something a little different, allowing you the chance to broadcast or watch members as they switch their webcams on and look for someone to communicate with. There is also a hotlist, which is where you add your “favourite” members, and a tab that let's you see who has viewed you profile (requires membership upgrade).

In terms of searching, you you search for attached or single 'matches', hinting that some members will not be married but simply interested in meeting a married person. We found that bradening our searches to include both married and single women boosted results in the areas as tested (London, Edinburgh and New York).

When it comes to making contact to arrange naughty chats or in-person meetings, it's free to flirt or hotlist a person but if you want to send a message you have to upgrade. This is pretty standard procedure and if you find good results in your area it is something well worth considering.nostringsattached

Our Conlusion: Is NoStringsAttached Worth Joining?

The affairs dating market is a competitive one. Some of the biggest names in the adult dating world are heavy hitters in this niche. NoStringsAttached is a growing brand and make a serious effort to show their members that they know what's important when it comes to finding an affair, things like regular tips appear on the screen advising how to be discreet are yet another nice touch to prove this point. We personally feel that they need more members before they can guarantee success, but this is something that is true of all dating sites. The bottom line is, when you sign up to try the site, run a search in your area or the places you travel to work in, and the results will go a long way to telling you whether you're likely to find the cheating partner you're hoping for.

As with all online dating activity, it's best to sign up to try multiple sites before deciding which one is right for you. The people that get the most success from internet hookups are those that are patient, put effort in and are open to trying a variety of sites in order to find the right formula. With affairs dating being so subtle and discreet, this advice is more

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  • 2022-02-20 20:35:49, Larry Davis Hodge (Man, 69)

    scam fake adds aff uses old canceled ads


    this site is 100% fake.. no one on here is a paid member.. and all ads say not visited for over 3 months...we found our old ad on this site that was canceled 5 years ago on aff... do not pay them anything...scam

  • 2021-01-31 07:25:40, Tery L (Man, 64)



    after 3 months not one view or email or look or nothing. a few of the profiles were copied from AFF and i knew two of them and they did not know they had a profile. A complete waste of time and money Not one look or hotlist, a complete scam of your money etc. Dont waste your time.

  • 2020-12-14 20:58:33, Peter Turkel (Man, 52) site is a huge scam


    This site is a huge scam. Stay away!! I live in Tampa, FL. There are no women with 50 miles who have visited the site with 3 months. There is no way to search by Last Visited. They won't consider giving users this option. Huge scam, huge scam, huge scam.

  • 2019-05-19 01:11:38, Brian Hutchings (Man, 64)



    This is very definitely a SCAM..THEY use bait and hook aattack..In my experience The women were all over me at the start so I joined then approached same ladys and none answered back.TOTAL SCAM

  • 2019-04-18 20:33:08, steve (Man, 69)

    I learnt the hard way.


    I was curious about the site so thought I would give it a try, but like a fool I did not change the default setting and have ended up paying for a year instead of a month. In the last few days I have sent out a lot of emails to the women on it but as of yet not one reply. There was a lot of women listed in my area but when you go on it tells you they have not been on for at least 3 months. You cannot see this till you pay to become a member, I do not think this is a site that is really working, just another one of those scam site. I learnt the hard way, I have learnt my lesson and will be keeping well way from them from now on. I hope this will be of help and stop anyone else falling foul to this scam.

  • 2018-11-27 02:30:20, JJ (Man, 40)

    No affair yet, still waiting


    I have a feeling ill be waiting forever. Never even had a bj, let alone a full blown affair. Waiting in vain...

  • 2018-06-13 03:29:48, Billy-Ray (Man, 41)

    Seemed alright but mostly spammers in the end


    From what I can tell you get one hot chick for every 3 spam chicks. They dont try to trick you or anything, they just waste your time and are a general pain in the ass. Puts me off big time and I aint sure ill be going back any time soon. Billy-Ray

  • 2018-06-09 00:00:12, Bill S. (Man, 53)

    one of the many sites


    It's free to put up your profile. You need to be a paying member if you wish to use the features on this site. I'm in a rural area and I'm a bit older than a lot of the crowd. I did a search and found a few women I was interested in. I couldn't message them since I wasn't a paying member but I was able to track down one of the users by indirect methods and eventually hooked up with her. I don't pay for adult websites as a matter of personal policy. You increase your odds of scoring by being a gold member. Post some pics that are in good taste. The gal I went after used a fake picture. She says it's too dangerous to use a real one. This is something you might want to consider.

  • 2018-04-23 01:21:18, Daniel Erling (Man, 39)

    I'm well up for a forbidden liaison!! ha!


    So far im enjoying the naughty and risqué chats im having with a few married women but im now at the stage where im ready for taking the next big step and trying to meet one of the fine ladies in person. Best plan for me is to meet a woman ive struck up a bit of a 'sexting' relationship with in london cos it's not too far for me. Dont mind a wee bit of traveling when it involved getting my knob polished ;-) So yeah, so far so good with NSA but time to put it to the real test me thinks!

  • 2018-04-23 01:18:39, Glen Burnie User (Man, 43)

    Good but there are better


    Nothing really seriously wrong with this company but just from what ive heard there are better ones to try.

  • 2018-04-09 00:40:47, Male4SkirtTease (Man, 69)

    This Site is a Rip Off


    I joined this site as a paying member only to find out that there are very few female members who are active on the site. Nearly all of the profiles indicate that the site has not been visited for over 3 months. I was unable to get anyone in Customer Service to respond to e-mail messages. I am not even sure that the site is currently active, although there is no problem with taking your money.

  • 2018-03-15 09:44:23, Sam Smith (Man, 40)

    New to this


    Im no expert when it comes to internet dating (or even the internet for that matter) but im finding this site (nostringsattached) a very interesting adventure. As someone trapped in a loveless marriage for reasons ill not go into I finally decided to turn to the web for some help in making my life a bit more fun. Ill probably try some of the other extra marital affairs sites but this one came up on google so I went for it and its keeping me busy. Wishing I had tried this type of thing years ago!

  • 2018-02-04 16:19:44, No Srings User (Man, 39)



    Good points – high numbers on site, easy to use on my laptop, east to use on my mobile, not expensive, some nice features Bad points – dont get as many replies as I would like, a few time wasters and c*ck teasers Overall rating 7 out of a possible 10

  • 2018-02-03 06:25:13, John (Man, 39)

    Looks and feels secure, that's main thing for me


    Key thing for me is discretion and damn sure most of the women and men reading this feel the same. If you wanted to leave your partner you'd leave, if you want a tasty side dish to keep life interesting then you use an affairs site. Down the years a few have been given a bad name but ive not heard a bad thing about no strings attached so im giving it a chance and up til now im happy with what I see. Would recommend.

  • 2018-01-26 10:57:40, Alpha (Woman, 51)

    NSA Not as good as you'd think for a cheater


    From my point of view: No site is good enough to hide my husband's traces from me.

  • 2017-06-21 04:00:00, Anthony R. (Man, 51)

    I do not understand all the good reviews, mediocre at best


    As something of a veteran in the online cheating game I can tell you that theres a reason why you havent heard much about this site. Thats simply because there are much better options out there. Period. No idea why people like it but im in the US and its not got me laid so think twice.

  • 2017-06-16 04:25:11, Kenny (Man, 52)



    Some mighty fine biaaatchees on this site. Had a few chats going but no warm apple pie yet lol Bring on the poontang!

  • 2017-06-08 01:21:45, DiscreetGuy (Man, 47)




  • 2017-04-18 07:19:16, J.J. (Man, 42)

    My two cents


    Is this the best hookup dating site on the web? No. But is it a good option for people in relationships, hell yeah. It's all set up specifically to help people cheat so its never going to be as easy as swiping your way to a one night stand on tinder but if youre looking to be careful and not get caught its a good option imho

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